I’m 17 now, my mom’s 43 but she looks hot and is a very fun outgoing person .. my brother’s 20. So i’ve matured alot and my mom knows it…my mom and i have a more laughing mature bond now rather than the bickering/fighting teenage daugher n mom ways we’ve always had. and i dont really rely on her for much anymore…she still cooks dinner and drives me to school, but i do pretty much everything else on my own. I go out alot and she no longer plays strict parent. She used to run my life … I’m the one giving her safety tips now cause i worry about the men she works with lol growing up she’s always been saying that me and my brother will always be her babies. She’s really loving and whenever we see a toddler playing with their mom in public, she’ll smile and say “aw i miss you when you were that little” basically reminiscing. My mom is like a momma bear when it comes to her own kids and she’s very nurturing and i want her to always feel like we’re still her kids and not grown adults who don’t need her anymore . i dont want her to feel like she’s been a mom all these years and now times up, she’s not a mom anymore and we’re adults who are on with our lives. Her kids are her priority and it would kill her if she thought she lost us, especially when i know she didn’t cause she’s my mom. We’re independent which is normal, but i want her to see that we’re still her kids to her no matter how old we get. Any suggestions? And no **** talking, this is an italian house hold so this is the way it goes.
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